The Latest Spanking

It has been a few weeks of Vanilla company and crazy work hours, but I finally got a spanking. The one thing about having a week or two between spankings is that I get more tender. Those implements that were only slightly evil now become very painful. I had been asking for the spanking for awhile, but with company and work it didn't happen until Sunday. I was taken down to the spanking room and told to take down my pants and get over his knee.

He was in a hospitable mood and so he worked up to the evil paddle. I got the hand, leather paddle, blue meanie, and then the wooden paddle. I only got ten, but with the wooden paddle, but boy did those ten get my attention. I didn't so much like it during the spanking, but I sure loved the before and after! Yes there is part of me that liked the during part too, in a very detached way. That part of me that is saying " Wow I'm really getting spanked and it really hurts, what was I thinking" It always seems to hurt more than I ever remember, when it's going on.

Cures for Cravings

Well I will have to say their are several cures for cravings. One is sheer exhaustion. So if you can't get you fix because of work or vanilla company, make sure that you totally run yourself ragged. It doesn't totally eliminate the cravings, but it does tone them down, until you can get in a spanking or two!

Have You Learned Your Lesson?

Have you learned your lesson, is such a loaded question in a play session. When asked a lot of things run through my mind. Yes, I have that hurts... I have sort of learned my lesson.....No, I haven't, now that you are asking me and not spanking me it doesn't hurt 8) It all depends on which part of me has control of my tongue, at that precise moment. I want the spanking to stop, but I don't, aarrgh so many choices in that spanking moment. Sometimes I am not sure which will win out. That spanking addict part of me never wants the spanking to stop, but that red fiery bottom says are you nuts. Oh well what can I say, this is the dilemma of a spanko, to continue on with a warming of the bottom or take the respite of some lotion and cuddling. I always know if I say no I haven't learned my lesson or some other remark that is on the bratty or sassy side I'll get a nastier implement applied to my already tender bottom. But oh, sometimes the fire on my bottom is well worth it, for the wonderful feeling after the spanking is done. That feeling of freedom and peace.

Hard Wired for Spanking

Have you thought about spanking as long as you can remember? Have you fantasized about spanking? Have you searched for spanking on the web and in book stores? Have you walked through the kitchen isle and tried wooden spoons out on your hands to see what they might feel like? Then you are probably hard wired.

Spanking has become more mainstream in the last few years. If you search for spanking on Google or yahoo or many of the other search engines you get thousands of hits or more. You can buy spanking books in mainstream bookstores and on mainstream Internet sites like Amazon.

As spanking of children becomes a thing that is frowned upon, spanking for erotic purposes and enjoyment in adult circles, has become more accepted. Also domestic discipline relationships for adults are becoming more widely accepted as well.

If you enjoy being spanked or spanking someone for fun, getting what you need or giving what the other person needs then you are probably a spanko. There are many safe places to find out if spanking is for you, depending on where you live. One I enjoy that is very supportive is Shadowlane. They have both a website and host a party once or twice a year. People from all over the country come to these parties as well as some from outside the country. You can play or just observe the goings on. For a first time party goer that can be a jaw dropping experience seeing that many spankos in one place.

I have been in totally vanilla relationships before and have found them lacking for me. I need spanking as part of my life. If you are hard wired, it is very hard to do without spanking in your life. It is an emotionally stabilizing force for me and whether soft or hard it touches a deep part of my being!

The True Spanking Wine

For all of you that have never heard of the Kröver Nacktarsch this is a true spanking wine. Not for the wine itself, but for the wine labels. Every label has a picture of a spanking on the label. Each year is different. The wine itself is inexpensive and probably would not be found in fine wine cellars, but I am very fond of the labels and the wine is on the sweet side more to my liking than the dry vintages. The name itself means naked bottom and Kröver is the vineyard.

Here is a link to a collection of some of the past labels
Kröver Nacktarsch Labels

I have only found one place in the US so far that imports it, Weinmax.

If you email gerald@weinmax.com he will email you back with prices and shipping costs. I was very happy with their service.

I never condone spanking and drinking. I just like the labels!

Askings the Hardest Part

A wonderful image from the secretary movie.

Since I am not in a discipline type relationship and am just a spankoholic I like to have my spankings often. So I can outright ask, which takes away some of the fun of course. There are many other ways to ask for a spanking and have it more when I don't expect it. There is the bad report card left on his desk, or a note from the teacher. The school girl outfit usually does the trick too. I like that feeling of not knowing when it's coming though.

That is not to say that I don't get those unexpected spankings. I get those too. Those are some of my favorites. I still have a craving for one of those outdoor woodshed spankings though. Unfortunately most of the trails around us are pretty well traveled and not all people are spankos *sigh*. I'm sure my time will come though and I'm looking forward to it!

Playing Spanking War

So I got to play spanking war and it was a lot of fun. Being in a relationship with a switch we played with one implement and the loser got the spanking! I did really well. I think we played 12 or 14 hands. We had 2 ties ( no spankings *sniff*), I lost 3 and he lost the rest *evil grin*. The most swats was 24 and the least, besides 0, was 4. I got 4, 6 and 8. He got the larger numbers. He made those really count though. I made mine count too with nice hard whacks!

We had a lot of fun and will probably play again. It makes it more exciting as a switch, because you never know who is going to get the swats!