Have You Learned Your Lesson?

Have you learned your lesson, is such a loaded question in a play session. When asked a lot of things run through my mind. Yes, I have that hurts... I have sort of learned my lesson.....No, I haven't, now that you are asking me and not spanking me it doesn't hurt 8) It all depends on which part of me has control of my tongue, at that precise moment. I want the spanking to stop, but I don't, aarrgh so many choices in that spanking moment. Sometimes I am not sure which will win out. That spanking addict part of me never wants the spanking to stop, but that red fiery bottom says are you nuts. Oh well what can I say, this is the dilemma of a spanko, to continue on with a warming of the bottom or take the respite of some lotion and cuddling. I always know if I say no I haven't learned my lesson or some other remark that is on the bratty or sassy side I'll get a nastier implement applied to my already tender bottom. But oh, sometimes the fire on my bottom is well worth it, for the wonderful feeling after the spanking is done. That feeling of freedom and peace.

Hard Wired for Spanking

Have you thought about spanking as long as you can remember? Have you fantasized about spanking? Have you searched for spanking on the web and in book stores? Have you walked through the kitchen isle and tried wooden spoons out on your hands to see what they might feel like? Then you are probably hard wired.

Spanking has become more mainstream in the last few years. If you search for spanking on Google or yahoo or many of the other search engines you get thousands of hits or more. You can buy spanking books in mainstream bookstores and on mainstream Internet sites like Amazon.

As spanking of children becomes a thing that is frowned upon, spanking for erotic purposes and enjoyment in adult circles, has become more accepted. Also domestic discipline relationships for adults are becoming more widely accepted as well.

If you enjoy being spanked or spanking someone for fun, getting what you need or giving what the other person needs then you are probably a spanko. There are many safe places to find out if spanking is for you, depending on where you live. One I enjoy that is very supportive is Shadowlane. They have both a website and host a party once or twice a year. People from all over the country come to these parties as well as some from outside the country. You can play or just observe the goings on. For a first time party goer that can be a jaw dropping experience seeing that many spankos in one place.

I have been in totally vanilla relationships before and have found them lacking for me. I need spanking as part of my life. If you are hard wired, it is very hard to do without spanking in your life. It is an emotionally stabilizing force for me and whether soft or hard it touches a deep part of my being!

The True Spanking Wine

For all of you that have never heard of the Kröver Nacktarsch this is a true spanking wine. Not for the wine itself, but for the wine labels. Every label has a picture of a spanking on the label. Each year is different. The wine itself is inexpensive and probably would not be found in fine wine cellars, but I am very fond of the labels and the wine is on the sweet side more to my liking than the dry vintages. The name itself means naked bottom and Kröver is the vineyard.

Here is a link to a collection of some of the past labels
Kröver Nacktarsch Labels

I have only found one place in the US so far that imports it, Weinmax.

If you email gerald@weinmax.com he will email you back with prices and shipping costs. I was very happy with their service.

I never condone spanking and drinking. I just like the labels!

Askings the Hardest Part

A wonderful image from the secretary movie.

Since I am not in a discipline type relationship and am just a spankoholic I like to have my spankings often. So I can outright ask, which takes away some of the fun of course. There are many other ways to ask for a spanking and have it more when I don't expect it. There is the bad report card left on his desk, or a note from the teacher. The school girl outfit usually does the trick too. I like that feeling of not knowing when it's coming though.

That is not to say that I don't get those unexpected spankings. I get those too. Those are some of my favorites. I still have a craving for one of those outdoor woodshed spankings though. Unfortunately most of the trails around us are pretty well traveled and not all people are spankos *sigh*. I'm sure my time will come though and I'm looking forward to it!

Playing Spanking War

So I got to play spanking war and it was a lot of fun. Being in a relationship with a switch we played with one implement and the loser got the spanking! I did really well. I think we played 12 or 14 hands. We had 2 ties ( no spankings *sniff*), I lost 3 and he lost the rest *evil grin*. The most swats was 24 and the least, besides 0, was 4. I got 4, 6 and 8. He got the larger numbers. He made those really count though. I made mine count too with nice hard whacks!

We had a lot of fun and will probably play again. It makes it more exciting as a switch, because you never know who is going to get the swats!

Spanking War

Most people know the card game war. I just had to add spanking to it. This is great for two people or you can play it with more. If you have two people who are switches, you choose one implement. The loser gets spanked with it. If it is a top (spanker) and bottom (spankee) playing it would be two implements. One would be the bottoms choice, the other would be the tops choice.

To play the game the deck is dealt out face down until each player has 26 cards. The just like the original game each player turns up one card at a time. The lower card loses and the winner takes both cards. In the case of identical cards. there is a war. The war is played with each player placing two cards from their decks face down and turning a third card face up. the higher card wins and gets the cards. This continues until each player has gone through their 26 cards. The winner is the player who has captured the most cards.

The spanking is then given by the winner (if it is two switches playing) with the chosen implement. The number of swats is the difference between the number of cards the winner has and the number of cards the loser has. For a spanker and a spankee the implement used is the choice of the winner.

A variation would be to do it with each turn, though that would be a lot of spankings 8)

With more than two players, you could make teams or everyone for themselves. The winner gets to spank the others, the number of swats being the difference between their total and the one being spanked and so on down the line. If a spanker is the loser, they must have a designated spankee to take their swats.

Melt the Spoon get Spanked by a Spoon

Ah yesterday, I wasn't paying a lot of attention, due to being engrossed in my new book. I do love reading Mercedes Lackey. At any rate I decided to make some tea and turned on the wrong burner. Hmm there was a plastic cooking spoon sitting on that burner. Since I have allergies, I didn't smell the burning plastic and when he walked in the room the kitchen was starting to fill with nice smoke from the melting plastic. About that time the fire detector started screeching. What a mess. To say the least, we spent about a half an hour with all the windows and doors open and I scraped off all the plastic from the burner, (at least it was a glass top so I could scrape it off!) so it would quit smoking and not harden on it.

So when he came home I heard melt the spoon get spanked by the spoon and off he took me to the spanking room for a meeting with the wooden spoon. Being a cooking spoon it is rather light weight wood so it is incredibly stingy and makes an impression very quickly. It was hardly a lasting impression so that had to be remedied before bed with the evil Nu West hairbrush.

The spanking wasn't for the melting of the spoon, but because I wanted a spanking, and it was a wonderful reason for one. I also love spankings that I don't know they are coming as long as it is someone I have asked to give me spontaneous spankings that is. I so love going to bed with a warm and burning bottom!