A Couple of Great Artists

This is a great drawing by Patty. She has several great blogs on which she shares her gift for art and verse and her spanking experiences.

This very realistic drawing by Brian Tarsis. He is an avid spanko and has done many drawings for Shadowlane as well. His art is very realistic and really shows the feelings involved in a spanking and other pursuits.

I love spanking drawings, stories and most anything spanking related.

From Discipline to Playful Spankings for one and all

This is a picture from the cover of the JEST Magaine from 1956

There are as many types of spankings as there are implements. I would say they all fall into one of three groups though.

• Punishment- Those spankings used as a deterrent in a relationship. The relationship could be that of a husband & wife, Master & slave or disciplinarian and the one being disciplined. In all cases it should be agreed on by both parties. This type of spanking is not pleasant and is done for the punishment of the individual for a transgression. The severity of which is determined by the spanker.
• Scene- This type of spanking can be either playful or severe. Many of the most popular scenarios are teacher/principle & student, parent & child, master & slave, prisoner & guard, nurse/doctor & uncooperative patient. This type of spanking is scenario set up by the spanker or spankee and may use simple props such as outfit up to entire rooms set up as dungeons or school rooms. This type of spanking may be painful, but is generally enacted for the pleasure of both parties.
• Play or spontaneous spanking- This type of spanking usually happens without prior planning and is also for the fun or enjoyment of both parties.

I experience spanking for enjoyment and not as a behavior modification. I can see where a spanking could help in behavior modification as it has a very powerful affect both mental and physical on the recipient. However I like to revel in my spankings so I'll stick to the enjoyment types.

I love to make up scenarios. I've made up notes from teachers and principals, complete with schools logos. School uniforms and other clothing specific to a certain scene have been motivators for Internet shopping binges. I even made up a spanking prescription with "anti-copy" background and doctors name etc just like the real ones. Of course everything on it had spanking references including the doctors name and address. Yes I did find a city with a spanko type name. What better than Brush! I also like to make painful toys and a few nice ones with fur on them, although those are more rare. I also made two jars with specific offences based on school or home offences, which can be used to set the tone and dialogue of a spanking.

For me spanking is a very freeing and creative process. It focuses the attention into the moment and holds you spellbound in it's force. Like a tidal wave rolling over you. The sting radiates through your whole body and carries you to places that you can't simply find without that stinging impression to guide you.

School Uniforms and Spanking

This is a picture from seykota.

School uniforms seem to have a big following in the spanking scene. The whole school room spanking gives many of us butterflies. Being that the first spanking I observed in public, was in a private school, it put's me in a good receptive mode for a spanking.

I now have two school uniforms, which I purchased from Lowrys School Uniforms . Their uniforms are very good quality and you have choices in style and color. The uniforms are made to last. The material is of very good quality, much better than can be found in some costume shops. Their service is also very good. They also have a variety of larger sizes which will fit most adults. They have uniforms for both boys and girls.

Some of my fondest spanking scenes have been in my school uniform. My favorite came on a day I was to be in the corner waiting for him when he got home from work. I had watched "The Story of O before he came home, so was in quite a submissive mood. I was in the corner waiting for my spanking when he arrived. There was much lecturing during which I had a quite long and hard spanking, with several implements.My bottom was very red and sore and my legs were like jelly by the time the spanking was over.

I was very calm and content and slept well that night. I had a sore bottom for several days, which always brought a smile to my face because it reminded me of my very wonderful spanking!


I do very much enjoy the more severe spanking, but only with people I know very well.

A Very Red Bottom Indeed

It was Sunday evening and I was in need of a spanking. I was also in a mood as well..not a good combination for sitting down the next day. It started out nicely enough. He pulled out the spanking chair and set it against the wall. I was then told to get over his knee. He was in a nice and generous mood and asked me if I deserved a warm-up first. I said no, which was a big mistake. I figured I would get the leather paddle first then. No I got the hairbrush on my bare bottom instead. That was very stingy and brought lots of protests from me. After that he asked again about a warm up, which at that point I thought would be a very good idea!

Then I got his wonderful hand for a bit ( that is heaven ). After that I got a short leather strap and leather hairbrush paddle , I was still stubborn and mouthy so the hairbrush came again. He asked if I was ready to behave, but of course my brattiness came out with a vengeance and I said no.

I was then ordered onto the wedge ( an angled pad that keeps my bottom in perfect position for being blistered ) on the bed. I then got the medium strap, the evil blue poly strap and the bath brush. Since I was being especially bratty, I also got his hand on my thighs (which isn't so nice, but gets a spankee's attention very quickly, when they are especially bratty). By this point I decided I would be good. My bottom looked as red as the picture above. I went to bed that night very content and with a very sore, tingly bottom!

A couple great drawings

The National Lampoon cover is a great classic.

I love the show kicked off and the arm ready to descend on the defenseless bare bottom.

The Home sweet home one is great because of the severity of his expression and how serious he is about the spanking. As well as her very red bottom. She is obviously paying for her indiscretions.

What do I look for in a spanker?

I love this picture. It gives me butterflies thinking about what a hairbrush feels like on a bared bottom!




I do so like the hairbrush in all it's painful glory. In the hands of a dominant, compassionate male it gives me wonderful butterflies. I did say compassionate, and not gentle. I like the spankings to feel real or I feel cheated somehow. Someone who can tread that line between pleasure and pain is a gift to the hungering bottom!

I look for several things when deciding if someone will spank me. Yes, unless it is a domestic discipline or master/slave relationship, I believe the spanking is the bottoms decision. It is after all a pretty intimate endeavor.

• Spark- Do I feel a connection to the person in any way?
• Accuracy- Are they accurate? Do they know how to use the implements they have? Are they comfortable with the implement?
• Mood- Am I in the mood and do they have the presence I need? Meaning do they put me in the mood for a spanking or make me feel the opposite. I like confidence, but hate arrogance. Unless it is someone I know well, telling me I am going to be spanked, will bring out the Dom in me and you might be getting the spanking instead.

The spanking should be about the person getting the spanking and the spanker should also enjoy the experience. That is what makes a great spanking.

How do I find a person I think I would like to be spanked by?

• Parties are a great place- watching other public spankings to see how someone spanks and maybe learn some new tricks as a spanker.
• Word of mouth- Spankees are great for letting you know who is good and who is not. Just take into account what types of spankings they like. A bad reference from some, may be just the type of spanker you are looking for.
• References from a spanking sites you trust. My favorite spanker, I met through a recommendation from Chastenwood. Also recommendations from friends who know you well, can be very helpful.
  

Just remember to go with your gut instinct. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.

Testing out the new brush

I had been asking for a spanking for a few days, but my spanker had hurt his back so it had to wait. Yesterday I got a call when he was getting ready to come home. I was to be in the corner in the spanking room and have the new hairbrush ready and waiting when he got home. Talk about butterflies. I got everything ready and then waited until I heard him come in to hop in the corner. I know that was naughty of me, but I didn't get caught.

He told me to come out of the corner and put my hands on the seat of the chair and arch my back so my bottom was in a good position. He decided to be lenient and give me some with his hand first. After the hand I got several licks with the double strap and then it was the new hair brush. It seemed stingier than the original, which since it is a lighter weight wood it would make sense. Oh and never forget to answer promptly and respectfully when asked a question, or like me you may get a few extra hard swats, to get you back into a respectful mode.

Later before bed I was curious if the old hairbrush was really not as stingy as the new one so I set it out on the bed with the red meanie, not my most brilliant of decisions 8)

So I got the the hand, red meanie and the old hairbrush. Yes it is a little less stingy, but also more penetrating, because it's heavier. I loved the before and after, but during the spanking was major ouch. I can still feel it this morning as I'm writing, especially in that tender sit spot!

Be careful what you ask for. If your lucky, like me, you may just get it!